You Doo?
You Doo? a bi-weekly podcast hosted by Mathew Vo (mat.tn.vo) and Vince Buendicho (vincentzshio). Join two besties as we yap and explore our queer asian experiences moving abroad from down under. From dating, identity crises, career to the latest girly pop album and everything in between. Meet our cool friends along the way as we feel our feelings, laugh, cry and contemplate everything that YOU DO. Follow our IG for @youdoopod for all the latest content.
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Jul 23, 2025
Jul 23, 2025
59 min
We laughed. We cried. We questioned all our life choices. Now it all comes down to this... the final episode (of Season 1). We’re going out with a bang featuring the iconic Jackie Tien — a chaotic “good” queen and multi-talented force of nature. She’s an LA-based actress, social media manager and all-around storytelling sorceress. We discuss the trials and tribulations of navigating Hollywood as a Vietnamese American and the legacy she's building in filmmaking. We dive into a reflection of our biggest lessons since starting You Doo? and our own personal evolutions over the past season. Will there be drama? Maybe. Tears? Almost certainly. Existential spirals? Already happening. The perfect sendoff to a season that talks about everything that you doo!!
Thanks to everyone who's tuned in since the beginning! —if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @jackietien, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Jul 9, 2025
Jul 9, 2025
55 min
What does it mean to tell stories that not only inform—but heal, challenge, and transform?
This week, we’re joined by Rhysea Agrawal, a rising force in climate journalism, Managing Editor at The Xylom, and one of the most compelling voices shaping how we communicate the climate crisis today. In this powerful conversation, Rhysea opens up about navigating queerness, immigration, and science all at once—and how those intersections have shaped her mission: to grow science with words. We unpack the importance of cultural context in climate reporting, the responsibility of communicators in the age of greenwashing and misinformation, and why representation isn’t just a checkbox—it’s the foundation for truth. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @rhysea29, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Jun 25, 2025
Jun 25, 2025
58 min
In a world that often tells AAPI queer folks to shrink themselves, speaking up is radical. Pride isn’t just a celebration. It’s protest. It’s presence. It’s power. In this episode, we sit down with Will Chen, a gay Asian man whose story cuts across borders and barriers. From silence to survival. We unpack the deep-rooted stigma around queerness in parts of Asia, the emotional toll of living in the shadows, and the complexities of dating and identity in Western queer spaces. Why are Asian men still overlooked or exoticized — even in communities that claim to be inclusive? This isn’t just about relationships. It’s about resilience and the journey toward visibility and self-worth. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @loveagoodwill, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Jun 11, 2025
Jun 11, 2025
1 hr 2 min
This month, we're honoring Pride—not just the parades and rainbows, but the people and progress behind them.This week's guest is Dalane Nash, a passionate community leader, and proud member of the LGBTQ+ community. We’re diving into identity, resilience, and the work of building spaces where everyone can belong. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @ddnash, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

May 28, 2025
May 28, 2025
53 min
Inspired by Vogue’s iconic 73 Questions, we sat down with birthday boy Vince for 30 questions to celebrate 30 years. But it’s more than a Q&A—it’s a deep dive into growing up, nostalgia, and what “thriving at 30” really means. From the lessons we never expected to the power of staying connected to our inner child, we’re unpacking the truth behind adulthood with a nod to 13 Going on 30. Is having it all figured out just a myth? Let’s find out.
Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven’t, please rate, follow, and celebrate with us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Got a “You Doo?” or “You Don’t?” moment? Send it our way: youdoopod@gmail.com!

May 14, 2025
May 14, 2025
51 min
Adjusting to a new culture as a mother is no small feat — and it's something many of us never fully understood… until we became adults ourselves. Our moms carried so much with quiet strength — acts of love, sacrifice, and resilience we only now truly recognize. In this special episode, we sit down in person for the very first time with none other than Mathew's mom— to talk motherhood, identity, cultural shifts, and everything in between. This one’s for every mother who’s ever built a home in a place that didn’t yet feel like one. This one’s for the mothers who adapt, survive, and raise strong hearts in unfamiliar places. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Apr 30, 2025
Apr 30, 2025
49 min
“Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving?” In this episode, we revisit the iconic film 13 Going on 30 to unpack the truth behind growing up. From the power of meaningful relationships to the unexpected lessons of adulthood, we explore what it really means to thrive at 30. Is the pressure to have it all figured out just a myth? And how can reconnecting with our inner child help us redefine success? Let’s talk about what growing up was supposed to be—and what it actually is. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Apr 16, 2025
Apr 16, 2025
1 hr 4 min
This week, we “kiki” the house-down-boots with Paul Yen — SoCal native, performer, and a true ALLY. From stage to screen, Paul brings more than just talent — he brings truth, heart, and purpose. We talk about what it means to be Asian American in Hollywood, the importance of telling authentic stories, and how he uses his platform to amplify marginalized voices — especially in support of the LGBTQIA+ community. Paul doesn’t just talk the talk — he shows up, he listens, he challenges, and he leads with empathy. This conversation is all about representation, reimagining narratives, and championing inclusion in every space he enters. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @hellopaulyen, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Apr 2, 2025
Apr 2, 2025
56 min
In our previous episode, we explored the concept that change is the only constant, and this week's guest is a true embodiment of that idea! We’re excited to "hold space" and welcome Eliza De Castro, a dynamic talent from Brisbane, who has embraced change with open arms. Eliza shares her inspiring journey of relocating to Vancouver and making the bold career transition from physiotherapy to pursuing her passion as a musical director in theatre. Tune in as we celebrate her incredible journey, the power of embracing change, and the vibrant world of the arts! Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @elizajdecastro, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!

Mar 19, 2025
Mar 19, 2025
55 min
Another very special guest! Our big sister Mary Go shares her journey of navigating a unique mix of cultural identities while transitioning from architecture to teaching. Mary discusses the challenges and rewards of this career shift, how resilience has shaped their path, and the lessons learned from balancing multiple cultures. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about adaptation, growth, and the power of resilience! Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @marypaulinego, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at youdoopod@gmail.com!


